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Old May 29, 2013, 12:12 AM
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Originally Posted by hezaa82 View Post
...I know they're not mad at me they're just scared of me. They're scared of any kind of strong emotion or negative emotion (thus why I wasn't allowed to have my emotions as a kid). Should I just wait til they contact me?
That's an interesting interpretation as to "why" your family is this way. Did you come to this conclusion by yourself, or is it something someone told you??

I would advise you to do what you are most comfortable doing. If that means taking a little space, for now, and waiting for your parents to contact you, then go for it. That's appropriate, imo. If you're more comfortable planning some kind of date in the future, to see them again, then go for that.
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