wittlebee
Sky put my thoughts into words perfectly. I'll just ditto her advice.
What would be some warning signs that he might be serious.
The remarks, behavior, and threats that he has already made
are the warning signs. Whether he is "serious" or just bluffing, or mentally unstable, there is definitely a problem there that needs to be addressed, that HE needs to address, and that you need to protect yourself from.
Even threats that he has no intention of going through with are just as serious an indicator that this is an unhealthy relationship for you to be in.
Good luck with this. You can rely on the people here for support and understanding through this.
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