((((((( Nothingtolivefor )))))))) I'm so sorry you're still hurting so badly about your T - and I totally sympathize with feeling that way about all Ts
There may well be good Ts out there (well I hope so, because I think I've finally found one, but it took me ploughing my way through 35 of the suckers to find him

) but I'd have to agree with Realdeal here, there really are a lot of incompetent superficial by-the-book stuck in rigid model thinking incapable of adjusting the therapy or themselves to the client's actual needs Ts out there as well. And a lot who betray. It's not all nice and cushy and safe by any means, trotting along to see a T.
NTLF please feel free to vent here as much as you need to, I for one really relate to how angry and betrayed you must be feeling
Torn xxx