NOthemama, Lmo, faye, & Ster thanks for all of your insights. We had a long discussion about the sex issue, I ended up crying (I was confused because I don't know what caused me to even cry!). Yes, I am on meds 300mg Wellbutrin XL and 80mg Celexa. Anyhow it's been a little better, he's better at taking my I'm not interested cues. We're both young, I'm 23 and he's 22. He's the first person I've ever dated who's been younger than I.

Lmo Do you know of any good sites he could go to that would help him understand what I'm going through?

Anyhow.... another problem, oral sex I HATE it and he complains about how I never do it or if I DO he complains about how SHORT it is...which makes me not want to do it even MORE.

Thanks again!