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Old May 29, 2013, 08:30 AM
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Originally Posted by kmsmith111 View Post
Wow, I think you're being incredibly hard on yourself. You're a human male with normal urges, and almost all men at the very least look at porn. You didn't have sex with anyone else; all you did was watch some pornographic material, and I'm sorry, that is NOT cheating.

As an insecure female, I can understand why your wife would be upset, but I really think she needs to explore why she's so bizarrely disturbed by your watching porn... she's actually "repulsed" by you now? I really think she's the one with the problem, not you, but I understand that you love her and want to make her happy. Still, you two should definitely sign on for in marriage counseling, if you haven't already.
Again, good points, but as the wife, I can speak to the difficulty of overcoming the repulsion factor. Still sometimes, very worthwhile to work at it!