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Originally Posted by LearningMe01
Spend time thinking about T. I am going to make a conscious effort to put her out of my mind. Mindfulness, that's what they teach us, right? I will no longer waste my time, energy or tears on someone who does not do the same (on anything other than a therapeutic level.)
Uuugh. I can't believe I fell into this "trap". I know it's common, but I thought I could give myself a little more credit than that. Apparently not.  |
I know how you feel. You feel as if you cannot live without your T, right? Transference is beautiful, yet painstakingly annoying. I'm in a simular situation. My T is everything to me. There is a thug in my school that see's her and hes always prodding down the halls saying things like: "I'm going to brtually kill Dr. H". I eve have fantasies where he attempts and I save her.
So, do not worry, love. This "trap" is utterly normal and, believe it or not, good for your relationship with your T. It means you trust her. You may put her out of your mind if you want, but believe me, therapy is hell without feeling the transference. Well, unless your T is neglectful, hateful and doesn't seem to care, then I would suggest putting her out completely.
Have an amazing day,
RainbowLonesomeDove