My ex cheated on me, the guy I'm dating now lied to me for 6 months about drugs and is constantly omitting information or skirting around the truth. I love him and he has become more open, if not completely open with me, but I can't help feeling I will never feel as secure with him as I would with someone who isnt dishonest and never lied to me in the first place. Is it unrealistic to look for someone who will tell the truth? Is dishonesty bound to be a part of every relationship?