That is exactly what my mother said too. We keep fighting about it, he told me I need to get over it and I told him he needs to give me a reason too. It feels like it's a constant back and forth and it's true, he doesn't share my values but I could accept that if he was willing to respect them. And Leed, I'm with you it's not the girls I care about so much it's the lying, he sees nothing wrong with lying to me about whatever, maybe he never has cheated on me maybe he never will but if he did he would lie about it anyways.