Hello Harley47 and hamster-bamster. Thanks so much for your support I'm feeling better than I did a few months ago.

Although my guy friend understood the situation and said things to make me feel better ("he will be punished for what he did to you, I hope he dies a horrible death"), he also mentioned the wet dreams, which I found disgusting.

I wasn't told to share the experience with a "male" friend. I was just told to share it with whichever friends I thought could offer me some comfort. I wasn't expecting this reaction from my friend.

I don't have a lot of female friends. Because of my job, I am mostly surrounded by men. I'm still in touch with my childhood female friends, but we are not that close. We grew up to be totally different.

My mother's opinion is that my guy friend is too sex-oriented and he can't understand I'm not the same way.