Perna, initially he lied to me about about doing drugs for 6 months but as far as I know he doesnt do them nearly as often and when he does he usually tells me. Now he tends to avoid telling me smaller things; for example he was planning to quit his job, but he changed his mind because he really enjoyed the company of one of the girls there who he has a fairly flirtatious relationship and didn't tell me that of course. Another time he did hide the fact that he bought drugs. He gave me his facebook password and deleted an entire message thread with another girl. Things like that. It definitely is a two way street, and I can't seem to learn to trust him if he's constantly hiding these things because I figure there must be something bigger to hide, like an affair, addiction, or otherwise damaging behavior.