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.... another problem, oral sex I HATE it and he complains about how I never do it or if I DO he complains about how SHORT it is...which makes me not want to do it even MORE.

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More BS!! He is just changing tactics...or dare I say, changing....

Try to understand, it is going to take him a while to adjust - a long while, I think. He is, after all, working against the "forces of nature" at this point in his life. Your "force" is being artifically suppressed, by either your illness or your meds, or both!

I do hope there is more to your relationship to concentrate on then this issue. (although I can't think of anything else I was interested in at that age, except for my budding career).