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Originally Posted by RainbowLonesomeDove
I know how you feel. You feel as if you cannot live without your T, right? Transference is beautiful, yet painstakingly annoying. I'm in a simular situation. My T is everything to me. There is a thug in my school that see's her and hes always prodding down the halls saying things like: "I'm going to brtually kill Dr. H". I eve have fantasies where he attempts and I save her. 
So, do not worry, love. This "trap" is utterly normal and, believe it or not, good for your relationship with your T. It means you trust her. You may put her out of your mind if you want, but believe me, therapy is hell without feeling the transference. Well, unless your T is neglectful, hateful and doesn't seem to care, then I would suggest putting her out completely.
Have an amazing day,
RainbowLonesomeDove |
First off, I love that you put 'lesbianism' as one of your disorders....that def. made me giggle a little, (my T has 'lesbianism' also lol) and I needed that today
I think I'll put 'Bisexualism' as one of mine...HeHe.
And you are SO correct, on everything you wrote. I feel like it's so unfair, that there is a person as beautiful as her in this world...someone that truly amazes me, that I'll never be able to be close to (in the way that I would like) And it makes my heart hurt. And the fact that she's leaving early next year makes it feel like she's slowly (and painfully) slipping away. Sounds corny, I know. Thanks for your words of encouragement though, you obviously know that you're talking about
Oh, and P.S. That thug at your school....that is super scary. Have you told your T about this?
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