Hello...

Were were together for 4 years while I was an undergrad...apart completely for 2 years (but still friends), now dating again for a while...

We do not think it has been long enough, and that's why he has said he wants to wait a year or so before we get engaged.

It's just become complicated because we were talking about it so much we felt we had to tell our parents...(because our friends know)..

We are both living at home because I am still a student and he is saving money...so there is a finanical issue also.