Finally, after almost 6 months of hard work (no pun intended) I have been able to drop that preference!

Really, a person is born and endowed the way he or she is born and endowed. It is unfair to discriminate based on appearance. Plus, it does not really matter because size is not a function of anything meaningful.

The level of hardness and the strength of movements and perhaps the color intensity (I am not sure about the color intensity as it is just a guess at this juncture) seem to be a function of the level of passion and thus should be appropriately rewarded via meaningful preferences.

Finally!