Hi! If indeed she has been hurt in the past, then I suspect she will need some therapy to get beyond that and to the point where she can date again and feel comfortable getting close to someone.

You can certainly try to be her friend, but I suspect you shouldn't push the issue too much. She's already told you about her history. Maybe if you just try to see her in friend type activities such as lunch, she might feel more comfortable.

However, I am concerned about her one-night stands. I think she might be pretty messed up right now, so I don't think you stand a big chance of winning her over, unless she does get therapy--and it might take a good while. That's my opinion, anyway.