Wow! Again, we are living some identical pattern in life from different areas. I can relate to your story here, as well as the other board. My father made an admission to me very similar while I was careing for him when he was dieing.

Just know our lives are oddly very similar and my thoughts are with you. You seem to have a ton on your plate right now. As you know, please try to take care of yourself during your trying times.

Feel free to PM me if you'd like.