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Originally Posted by Mastodon
I'm sorry, granite - I know it's horribly hard when people you care about are hurting and you don't know what's going on or what to do to help. I did have T today. It was rather horrible, and I felt as if he was really frustrated with me all the time, without actually telling me so. When he said my time was up I bolted out of the chair and ran downstairs without saying anything. That was in the middle of a discussion about whether he reassures me too much, when I just wanted to yell at him "Yes you do reassure me too much, because I am a despicable human being who deserves no reassurance at all!" - but of course that would sound like I was fishing for reassurance, so I simmered and said nothing.
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i am so glad you can see i care about ou because i do. i so get the whole reasurance thing .my T says i need to check out my feelings with her when i think she hates me or is wanting to kick me to the curb and things like that .but i will not because i know if i did that every time i know in a very short time she would be in that place of thinking she is reasuring me to much. it is so hard to be in that place of always feeling so insecure .i dont have a clue how T's can help us get past that without constantally reasuring us . and then there is the fact that will you believe them if they do.