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Old May 30, 2013, 10:59 AM
hamster-bamster hamster-bamster is offline
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I am well aware of the breast milk fetish and I agree that personally when I picture a pumping woman I find it off putting whereas seeing an actual mother nurse a baby in my experience causes very tender feelings in men who are normal, two guys in my experience, because normal men react to the beauty of mother baby bond.

That aside, I personally believe that unless your wife is in very severe financial distress, she should be donating all her excess milk to babies in need rather than selling it. Breast milk is a blessing rather than a commodity, unless, again, there is severe financial need. It is not that I am against fetishes or find the guy perverted or anything, as I do not, but I just do not like seeing monetization of blessings. Also, children fed the milk of the same woman feel a bond that is special and unique. My mother had ample supply and donated to a boy whose mother was dry and he became my wet nursing brother or milk brother and I feel bonded to him. Actually I will look him up on the web today as I have lost track of him. Both his mother and mine have already passed away.

I know this will sound weird to you but try convincing her to donate rather than sell, and I am sure that she will become a better person because treating blessings the way they should be treated will straighten her moral character.

I wanted to donate milk following in my mother's footsteps but I could not because aalthough I too had ample supply, I found it cumbersome, difficult, painful, and inefficient to pump with a manual pump. Maybe Medela would have solved my problem but I did not have money for The industrial strength Medela. Luckily for my sense of fulfilling my purpose in life, I had a babysitter who had a son my baby son's age and I nursed her son a couple of times on occasion directly from my breast.

I do not believe in karma but if your wife does, you call tell her that selling milk to fetisists is karmacn