Hi all,

So I recently posted about my rough times with my T. I pretty much went to another T for second opinions and also suggested that I leave therapy altogether. However, a couple of weeks have passed since then and I thought of continuing therapy with my T again. However, in the past few sessions, my T has stressed (again and again) that she doesn't know how much more she can do for me. I am really shocked/confused right now because we always have gone through this rough patch where I would have doubts about my T but then we would work things out (at least that's what I thought). It seems to me though that maybe my T has had enough.

Yesterdays session I was actually the one that was trying to stay but my T just kept on reiterating about she doesn't know what she can do for me and that I keep on repeating the cycle. She even suggested I can maybe look for other Ts, and at that point she said all the things she was saying, I said these things to her before. At this point, I got even more confused and thought it was going to be my last session with her. I was a sobbing mess in the end, thinking, "wow, this is how it is going to end with her", and then she suddenly says, "I will see you on Monday." What?!

The thing that gets to me is in the past when I threatened to leave, she said if I did that and went to another T, I would run into trust issues regardless of who it was. Instead of running, I can work things out with her. Now though, she is telling me to go to another T because she doesn't think she can do anything for me. When I resisted in going to another T, she said it was because I was afraid, that's why I don't want to go to another T

So now I am thinking, when I want to go to another T, she said I would run into the same trust issues. But now, she is telling me to go to another T because she can't help me anymore.

Is it time for me to just move on? I feel like maybe she wants to see me again because I was a complete wreck yesterday and gave me a pity appointment.