I asked my mother once if my dad had pictures of naked/almost naked women up would that bother her and she (of course) said yes. My mother is the most secure person ever, totally balanced. She said if my dad could look her in the eye and say he was okay with one of those women being me or my sister or her or his niece, she would accept it because then he wouldn't be a hypocrite. If you wouldn't want it to be your wife/daughter/sister you shouldn't exploit other peoples wives/daughters/sisters