Labeling yourself is a step in the wrong direction. Just 4 meetings with a Therapist is not enough to even begin to understand any thing!
Public self pity and self put downs don't work with me. Because you are so sharply aware that you think you are a "Clinger" and have 84.1103% "DPD". Means you already know how to Heal your self. You know what you need to work on. But I am left wondering how much of that is BS.
Negative nature of your post about yourself does invite a "Kick Me" repose. That's for sure. But "Kick Me" is an easy game to let go of. If you are "Clinging" to any thing, it is Kick Me.
Now it is time for you to be a Warrior, and be a Proud one at that!