Erection problems are not an excuse to not want to hear the world sex and I once had a lover who had no erections whatsoever (probably from antidepressants) and we had daily sex and I had multiple orgasms daily/nightly because he still had his hands. And tongue, to some extent, though unfortunately I cannot come from oral sex.

In other words, as long as his hands have not been amputated, he has no excuse.

Also what he said about porn makes zero sense.