Isn't your husband in therapy? If he's NOT, he should be !!! Is he on medicatiion? If he's not, he SHOULD be!!!

Have you asked him if he loves you? BiPolar people can feel emotions, even tho they may be screwed up. Generally, they aren't completely NUMB. But your husband needs therapy, and badly! See that he gets into therapy, and SOON.

No you're not being selfish. Of course you want your husband to love you. But right now he's very screwed up, and he needs help. Make SURE he gets it, okay?

Let us know what happens, ok? God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee