Court Knee,
I know that you have moral values that you hold onto.....& I know that there is NOTHING WRONG in waiting until after you are married....& there is nothing wrong if the match is right for the person to also be willing to wait......if they are pushing you & they want to end the relationship because of your values....they they aren't the right person in the first place.....if they are a good match then they will have the same values as you in the first place & will completely understand where you are coming from.....if not.....maybe they seriously are the wrong person for you.