I don't know, I know I have endured a lot of abuse in my life. sexual abuse as a teenager by an authority figure, my parents were never emotionally there, but only financially. I have experienced a lot o domestic violence in my reltionships with men..
and my husband recently went to rehab, and has changes tremendously. but I am the one who kind of eels trapped, for him to repair what he has done to me and never do it again I am unsure of that. I don't know I he is going to really stay sober cause if he relapses I cant be with him anymore, no more strength to deal with his addcitions... I got my own self I need to work on.. he seems to like the native American way of staying sober and seems to be helping him and I hope he does so we can be a family together.. and be an insprration to others that we fixed the damage in our relationship.. right now I am scared he wont though.