So why did you have the affair in the first place?

Nothing good can come from an affair IMO.....that chemical that's messing up your thought process isn't going to help you in making a wise decision.

Giving up something that for sure is good for something that has no sureness at all other than a thrill & lust with no sure ending to your happiness.....so you divorce your husband & this other guy dumps you....then where will you be????

Do you really want a guy like that who isn't a one in a million???? You know your future with your husband....you have no sure future other than that.

I left my H because it was a seriously bad marriage...but I didn't leave for another man....I left to be alone & take care of myself, something that my H never was able to do.