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Originally Posted by hope2013
In the past, when he would say those things, I didn't attach any importance to it... I became really sensitive after the rape.
I know that he was trying to compliment me, he doesn't understand my reaction even though I have tried explaining it to him.
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Just tell him that it was nice of him, because you need to acknowledge his good intentions, but that he will need to take a break from such comments/compliments until you tell him that you are ready.
That would mean that you are not trying to switch him off forever.