Thanks for the perspective all.. SD- I wish I didn't have so much restraint, actually. I am the same way with my own T.. If he does something to piss me off I rarely call him on it and if I do, its in a round about sort of way..

T did tell MC to wait for me to bring up my trauma history.. I think he just said what he did, because he knew that we weren't getting anywhere with our sessions. Though, he says he won't push me to know the details and he doesn't have to know. I shared with him that I am reading through The Courage to Heal, so he can guess from that that he was some kind of CSA. I need to change my attitude towards him!!