
May 30, 2013, 07:55 PM
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Member Since: May 2010
Location: Some where between my inner mind and the solar system.
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Originally Posted by newlifeyeah
I just think that a lot of the discussion going on in these forums are acutally to "alleviate" the symptoms.
I don't really see the deep talking, and the deep support that really helps. We are making threads about chemical imbalance, to try and explain our depression. I think it's absolutely going in the wrong direction, and that's someone saying these assumptions who is actually coming out of the hole, and made a LOT of progress. So I let myself be honest and cruel because I have the experience and fundaments for it.
If it really was a depression forum to help solve the problems, we would actually be talking about deep psychological stuff with each other. But I don't see that here anywhere, just all the talk about the pain and the meds. I been there too. And I know that mentality only lead me to become even more depressed.
I think most of the people in these boards are just too scared to admit they have issues, and try to solve them.
And you guys blame EVERYTHING else BUT yourselves.
I'm not saying you guys should blame yourselves, because it's only normal that we react with depression and anxiety to certain traumas and events. But I really believe that those who really want to defeat depression, you have to change this mentality of always saying just "hugs" and "supportive things" to each other. On the surface you may think it helps, but it really just helps to keep eachother in this hopeless situation.
Yes I do think Jeffro needs to dig deeper in his self, and stop worrying about biology and medication. And I will always keep this as my opinion, because I know that this is the mentality that actually helps defeating depression.
Not the hugs and the meds.
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You have the sound of the newly initiated. Whether it is addiction, religion or psychology a positive change or break though in ones life often brings a fanatical belief that this one way will work for everyone. The thing is there are many ways to transform and most people need more than one way and at different points along their life time. People need to do what works for them.
I'm glad that what you are doing has been working for you however none of us knows anyone else here enough to make any kind of judgment on another person. With time and experience will come tolerance.
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