What is wrong with not knowing? It is hard to fit yourself in these prepackaged ideas and labels because everyone is uniquely different and we are not all one size fits all, so to speak. Maybe you are in a time of contemplation or self discovery and you may not know at this particular moment but by not knowing you are moving closer and closer to knowing. Try not to dwell to much on the observation that you do not fit in the mood categories maybe its that the mood categories don't fit to you.