Sounds likely that you will be able to repair the marriage, That is good.

I would imagine if you have certain things about her personality or perspective that is really bothering you ... She mostly likely has some things about you that shes doesn't care for..

As I always say " there is 3 sides to every story.. His , hers and the truth "

I hope you and her can work on the relationship and remember the good times And bring back all the feelings that brought your love together initially, yes all relationships change as time goes by, but often people need to remember why they love someone..

Infuse love back into your relationship.. Someone needs to start

.. It all takes time , patience , respect and love.