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Old May 31, 2013, 12:51 AM
EBD8 EBD8 is offline
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The girlfriend I have now is much younger than me and that is an understatement. Having raised 3 daughters I'm trying my best and it is working that even as young as her abuse started she had become accustomed to being abused and accepted it as natural. Since her abuse started at an early age she associated that is the only way she could get attention from both her parents. The abuse she suffered has been very hard for me to endure but she knows that she can trust me, I will always be there for her and without trust nothing works. One time she was in another relationship where she bragged at how much she actually enjoyed the abuse. Your abuse may not have been this extreme but if that's all you know then that's what you come to expect. He is not going to change. I tell my girlfriend that "abuse of anyone at anytime for any reason is NEVER acceptable." If you continue to stay in an abusive relationship eventually you will not even know who you are anymore. Hope this helps...
Hugs from:
hamster-bamster
Thanks for this!
hamster-bamster, healingme4me