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Originally Posted by Totalfilmy
things with dan might be looking great for now, but eventually the passion and love will settle down and you might realize later that you made a big mistake. while your husband's love is unconditional and he is a better human being. it would be better if you stopped all communication with both the men for a few weeks to find out what exactly you want. out of the two men, the one who loves you will wait for you and you will have your answer.
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Your wisdom is quite solomonic
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OP - you are in a rather typical situation of being torn. You are not an awful person and the situation is typical. What is not typical is the reaction of the husband. So it seems to me that in the situation the husband wins but your feelings for the co-worker are valid as well. I would try Totalfilmy's approach.