I dreaded this thread for some time now. After today's therapy session I am a hot mess! To address or to not address it, is the big issue right now. I thought that I could leave my erotic transference at the door, that was until I sat down and my entire body was shaky at the site of her. Yep this SUCKS! Not to mention that I have not even asked her yet if she was okay dealing with a lesbian client as she is straight. Now these stupid feelings are throwing themselves into my face. I think she can tell what's happening but wants me to come out and say it? She even said that I was ready to start seeing her every 2 weeks, instead of every week. Yes that hurt a bit, but it is probably for my own good. But if she knows this transference is accuring why won't she hurry it along and why doesn't she come out and just ask me about it. I'm not in love with her at all. I just think she is gorgeous and I feel like a little school boy(girl) around her and its making me look and sound rediculous and is probably hindering my therapy. SOME HELP HERE PLEASE and thank you!!