Nightmare isn't it! Well done you for saying what you felt though. As anilam said what did you want the response to be? I am very attached to mine and hate the fact it has to be one way, but she always says it is less one way than I think and that I can never know how much she cares. She also says if she tells me I wouldn't believe her and so she needs me to feel it.
Can you feel any of this sort of thing from your t? Hang on in there. Lots of us are very attached and I think it eventually gets more manageable.