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Old May 31, 2013, 03:11 AM
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Originally Posted by worknonit80 View Post
It would hinder it due to the fact I kinda go numb when I see her. Blank in the face and today and I almost dropped my drink out of pure nervousness! I couldn't even process my own thoughts to relay them correctly. If I come out with this I risk losing her.... Ugh!
I got it. No, I do not get nervous and I have never dropped a drink - she gives me a cup of tea or a glass of Kombucha every time I see her and I have never dropped a drink or even almost dropped a drink in more than six months.

So, yes, it is quite serious. Agreed.

I do not agree that you would risk losing her if you come out - you are having a garden variety case of transference and she has definitely gotten training on how to deal with it.