Wow, I think you're making a HUGE mistake. You're in the "honeymoon" stage of your affair, but that will end, believe me.

You are SO lucky that your husband -- who is "one in a million" -- is willing to forgive you and work past this. He sounds like a wonderful guy, and that he loves you to death! Bless his heart, I think you should hold onto him with everything you have!!!

This guy you've been seeing will throw you over for someone else -- wait and see. If he was willing to break up a marriage, he's not going to stop there. He'll move on to someone else, and perhaps break up another marriage. He does NOT have good morals/ethics.

You're right -- you're making a huge mistake. Go to marriage counseling, and find out what made this happen in the first place. Or else YOU go to counseling, cause I'm not sure your husband even needs it!!!

Sweetie, please don't destroy this marriage that you two were so good in together for 8 years!!! You two BELONG together. Yes, you made a mistake, but your husband is willing to forgive/forget and how many husbands can do that? You've got a gem there!

God bless and please keep us posted, will you? We DO CARE! Hugs, Lee