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Old May 31, 2013, 09:36 AM
almostthere almostthere is offline
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I know what ur going through..... been there many times with my long time buddy.....depression.

U must put in a super human effort to convey to ur T how u really feel....it seems to me that ur holding back your progress for some reason or another. U need to dig deep down inside of ur mind to find out why. Your t is there to help u and ur perception about how he sees u may be throwing u off...... our minds sometimes work that way....

I often feel that way myself... after fouteeen years of therapy i was ready to give up.... and i did....

I stopped going for therapy and stopped taking my meds and found that i was able to connect with my emotions. I was able to c clearly and was happy about my decison. I still feel depressed but i accept that as part of me..... I got that mental desease from my mom but kept it deep inside of me in order to move forward with my life.

I'm not suggesting that my situation is the same as yours, because everyone is different, I'm only saying that u shouldn't give up on yourself just yet.

Keep on trying...... it's a long term process and patience with understanding is the key!!!

Good luck 2 u and I wish u all the best.....

"almostthere"










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Originally Posted by Freewilled View Post
So I am just feeling like cashing it in and being done with T. I am so frustrated with the entire process and I'm sick of it! I don't know if its all me and I'm just projecting, or what. But I sense my T is getting sick of my crap and I'm sure he's tired of my little steps forward, HUGE step back pattern. I hate myself and the way I'm so annoying with my push-pull interactions in this relationship. I want my T to care SO badly but then when he does, the next session I'm like f-u and am so distant. I really think he picked up on that tonight and I'm disgusted with myself.

I just want to be close to someone. I'm so sick and tired of being alone and depending only on me. I want to have some sort of genuine long-term connection with someone who wants the same with me. But I think all i end up doing is self-sabotage in the end....

I don't know that I'm asking for anything here so thanks for letting me vent. I'm super close to canceling my next session and I've never seriously considered that before now. I'm scared
Thanks for this!
Freewilled