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Originally Posted by Freewilled
I sense my T is getting sick of my crap and I'm sure he's tired of my little steps forward, HUGE step back pattern
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You don't sense that, you just think you do, and you're not sure, you just think you are.
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Originally Posted by Freewilled
I'm just afraid that bringing it up will even cause him to become impatient with me because my transference is so present and I am annoyed with it. I'm sure he is too. He is a human being after all.
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I so totally empathise because I've been in this position so many times, and I have to tell you that this is transference talking. Yes, your T is a human being. Which means he understands where you are coming from, he cares about you, and that forward-back pattern makes perfect sense to him.
Every time I think these things about my T, I'm wrong.
