that makes sense what all of you are saying... i just wish she would reach out and show she cares, because thats all i need right now... to know that someone really does care about my feelings. i think ive made them pretty clear and i know that the situation is not ideal but i really just want to feel wanted and cared for. thats how old t made me feel and thats why i loved her so much. this new t seems distant and cold.