So I am off to get my hair cut and dyed for the first time in ages. I really want to get a gorgeous red-violet that I have been thinking about for many months. The thing is, I'm about to start looking for a job and suspect that the more tame, safe color is what I SHOULD get

Oh and I'm waiting for a call back from T....had a very bad interaction with ex and sort of lost it and did a bit of SI and then emailed T about it(for some reason I always feel the need to "confess" or something).....anyway, he said we should discuss things at some point today....