Don't be ashamed about having desires for another man that led to an affair. I'm a man that was married for thirty-four... I also, sorry to say, had an affair with another woman while being married to my ex-wife.

Please don't b ashamed to share ur experience as this is a common occurrence in our modern society and happens everyday, every waking moment... even as we speak it's happening to someone.

It's quite obvious to me that u are truly in love with this man who has provided u with something that was lacking in ur marraige. It also happened to me.... it happens to everybody... common everyday people as well as celebrity figures. All u have to do is listen to the news, or read a magazine... it happens to rich folks, poor folks, politicians, (look at former President Bill Clinton), and the list goes on.

When there is something lacking in a marraige it deprives us from the happiness and bliss we are led to believe should be a part of it. However, in most cases we become disillusioned and our human nature leads us to territory we should not travel too. In short we are looking for love and happiness no matter where it leads, or who we meet. Everyone desires to be happy and will do, say, anything to get there. Life is short and even though we make the wrong choices, and know the consequences, we still, as human beings pursue the desire for love and happiness no matter what the costs. It's strong, powerful, and overwhelming!!!

If u can save your marraige than give it a try if u think there is still a chance. If not then u should consider your options... whatever they may be...

I sincerely hope u the best and if u want to continue this conversation maybe we can become friends through this network and offer each other help.

Regards,

"almostthere"