So you compare with lying about being a virgin and I would respond to that too.

I do not think that you should interrogate your potential partner unless you have a valid need and the. Only valid need is STI risk. Virgin is a horribly loaded, charged term with all sorts of connotations and I do not think that compassionate and educated people should have it in their active vocabulary. That you have it in your active vocabulary in such a serious way devoid of any shade of irony and humor is. Unappealing.