If you suffer from depression the only people that understand you are the people with the same illness. My friend, who I see not so much now, after me spilling my guts out to her she was really great about it. A week later I got a text from her asking me to go to a reunion with her. I felt like smashing the phone against the wall. She knows I can just about go grocery shopping. So you see people don't understand. So I dont bother anymore.