Your reasoning makes sense. Have you discussed it with your T? I think it would be productive since she's "right there" and it's about your feelings for her. I think you're talking about something else, but when I found out my T is getting a divorce, it gave me a sinking feeling, like "she can't do that to me". Of course she's not doing it to ME, but it diminishes her wholeness in a way, too.
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