I'm not sure I understand what "diminishes" means, but maybe in your mind, youve put her in this superhero type role... the one who is there to help you and save you or whatever your case may be... i mean, thats how my old t was to me... a saving grace. and when something happens, its kind of a reality check and you get to see her/his human side and that therefore diminishes the idealic image you have?
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