Yes, Shezbut, she told me about bondage and I'll give it a try. it is harmless. And you are right, I wish I were more self-confident sometimes, I keep trying to fix that, thank you And Robutts thank you, yes I already became a member at a bdsm site and even if I still hate what I see in there I understood that there are harmless tactics that can give the idea of being dominated. And didn't occured to me the thing y said about her dominance, it makes sense now.