I voted married because I enjoy being married, but honestly I can't say one is better than the other. It depends on the people involved. It so happens that I have a great husband. If I didn't, I might have voted another way. There are some who should not be married, and there are others who are happier single. And I certainly don't recommend getting married just to be married. This is my fifth time around. I'd say wait until you KNOW this is the one, before tying the knot. I wish I'd married this one the first time.