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Originally Posted by hope2013
Hi George! Thanks for your reply. I'm afraid you are right, I should drift apart from my friend... Today he said it again  Even worse, upon seeing an old pic taken at my cousin's wedding, he said that I looked so pretty that many guys would like to masturbate to my pic.
My main goal is to try to avoid reminders and flashbacks, to improve my psychological well-being, and this friend is not helping. |
Sorry but this man comes across as downright creepy. And I say this as a man myself. The only time I may say something along those lines was if I was in a realationship with a woman and said it in a joke way. There's a time and place. You're pouring your heart out about being raped and this man either has very poor social skills or he's deliberately getting some sort of pleasure out of making you feel uncomfortable. I seriously think you should get away from this man because I would not trust this man if I was a woman. He seems to be making jokes about you being raped. He's no friend, he's making lightwork over something that has affected you very badly and I'd be concerned if I were you that he may be into rape himself. He probably isn't a potential rapist but I wouldn't take the risk.
Get the hell away from him and don't entertain being near him again. He doesn't seem like someone you need to be around.