Granite - I am doing some drinking myself tonight. Making new friends is difficult and it is something that I struggle with as well. You have done it before though. There was a time when your bff and your hubby were strangers to you. Just remember that you are just going to a crafting function. This isn't a life long commitment. There is no need to even feel pressured to hang out with her again if you don't want to. Just go and have a fun / relaxing day.